23 Apr 2015

The Myth of Sex in Marriage....#mySexuality




MySexaulity .....bishop tweets

@yinkanubi: 2. There's d belief that married peeps hve more sex. Its a myth. The opposite is closer to reality. Don't ask me, ask @Topsyken @Talk_Expert
@yinkanubi: 3.There's d perceptn dat men enjoy sex more. Its a myth. Actually women enjoy it more while men merely 'want' it more @Topsyken @Talk_Expert

@yinkanubi: 4. If u think that getting married will guarantee u more sex, u better have a rethink cos you are in for a rude shock @Topsyken @Talk_Expert

@yinkanubi: 5. And if u think that u're d only one with a high libido cos u're "da man"..wake up dude..u are in the 21st century. @Topsyken @Talk_Expert

@valgambo: @yinkanubi @Topsyken true. Especially when the kids start coming. One has to make a conscious effort to make it happen.
@yinkanubi: Ok ..I have been married for 13 years....so forgive me if I say I think I know a thing or two abt this topic. #mysexuality @_MySexuality
@yinkanubi: Have u ever gone to a wedding and all u can think of is "What d newly wed wld be doing later at night?". Its all part or d myth #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: The perceptn is there that marriage is a free pass for sex..so unwittingly many get married only to discover its not dat simple #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: The expectations built up by this myth impacts on the marriage in ways that in some cases has literally broken up marriages. #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: Think abt "Making Love" as d Journey & sex as d destination. Unfortunately for many, sex is both the journey & the destination #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: There are a whole host of realities that impacts on d sex live of married people. Kids, work/life balance, & d big H-Hormones. #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: So even at the best of times in a relationship, these factors will still conspire to limit the frequency of passionate sex. #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: This is why if there be anything any couple planning marriage shd be fixated about, it shd be "How can I learn to make love"? #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: This is bcos making love is not about sex but about appreciating everything abt your better half within their current reality.  #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: So when my wife is in that period when her hormones are everywhere, I recognise that as an opportunity to love her like that #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: Making love means helping out with the kids and domestic work because it makes the woman relaxed and more receptive to u later #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: Making love meaning understanding that if ur spouse have been away frm home a while coming back to a clean bedroom spks volumes #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: Making love means letting the other person know...without prompting that you are proud of him or her no matter how irrelevant. #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: Making love means understanding that your spouse might just need some space and time to be alone. "Just one of dem days". #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: These ought to be the compelling thoughts as you tie the knot on ur wedding day. And not some humping sessions later at night. #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: The second myth I want to tackle is one that assumes just on the bases of XY chromosomes that "Men love sex more". #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: I don't know how many times I've heard people say "men can't do w/out sex...implying that "women can do w/out it" such fallacy. #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: The fact that men are more easily aroused towards sex does not mean that by inference they love sex more. Its simply not true! #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: A woman's body is configured to enjoy sex more dan d man. Unfortunately society conditioned us to not to see this obvious truth #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: Ever heard of WHO? I.e. WEAR HIM OUT! This is euphemism used by women to depict d total annihilation of d man in d arena of sex #mysexuality
@yinkanubi: Nothing confirms d superiority of d woman dan her ability to WHO d man. Whatever best he can give, she can take + knock him out #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: However, it takes sometime, some process & some learning 2 get d woman there. But d fact she's not there doesn't mean she can't #mysexuality

@yinkanubi: Men may think more or want sex more but trust me, deep down, women enjoy it far far more. #mysexuality






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