Treat him like your king...

Treat him more..

For the wives too....

1. The man in your life need all of the compassion, patience and support you can find in your heart, to help them open theirs.

2. Part of improving your relationship with a man, whether it’s your husband, boss, father or brother, etc, it is not just understanding his

behaviour but also taking an honest look at your own behaviour as well.

3. Believe it or not, you may be bringing out the worst in the man you love by the way you behave around them.
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4. He needs a wife and a lover, not a mother, so stop treating him like a kid who does not have brains.

5. Don’t scold or correct him in public

6. Even when he is wrong, talk to him nicely but at the same time make him believe it was his bright idea that solved the equation, a confident man will not be afraid to admit that his woman is intelligent.

7. Stop being over-helpful by doing things that men would naturally rather do by themselves.

8. Stop thinking you will become indispensable when you make the man depend on you.

9. Dont you think pet names or abbreviations are better  than calling your husband/boyfriend “daddy”.''ori mi'' ''baba iya mi''.......

10. Mind your language, especially when you are upset. You may think men forget hurtful words easily. That is a huge lie, they remember everything you say that is capable of damaging their ego and self-esteem.

11. Do not use phrases like “I thought you were this but now I know better”, rather try saying “sometimes I am hurt when you say this or do this, it worries me”.

12. You cannot change a man who is set in his ways but your attitude and the atmosphere you create around him can do the magic.

13. When he is going through a difficult time with work and his abilities to accomplish, he will definitely not be in the right frame of mind to focus his attention on relationship issues.

14. Even when you are having issues and arguments with your man, there are three things you should never deprive him of (food, shelter and sex).

15. Your husband feels extremely rejected when you reject his sexual advances, especially when there is no physical or spiritual justification.

16. Men like their wives to also initiate sex, it makes them feel wanted.

Good luck as you reflect on this few tips and try them out...you never know,it might be the magic wand you have been looking for to change things in your relationship.