Sex fills a powerful emotional need.

Extract from the book 'For Women only'

SEX FILLS A POWERFUL EMOTIONAL NEED.

Although popular opinion portrays males as one giant sex gland with no emotions attached, that is the furthest thing from the truth. But because men don’t tend to describe their sexual need in emotional terms, we wives may not realize that.

In a very deep way, your man feels isolated and burdened by secret feelings of inadequacy.  Making love with you assures him that you find him desirable, salves a deep sense of loneliness and gives him the strength and well-being necessary to face the world with confidence.

And, of course, sex also makes him feel loved – in fact he can’t feel completely loved without it.

At the most basic level, your man wants to be wanted. Look at the overwhelming response from the second professional survey.

The topic earned the highest degree of unanimity of any question: 

97 percent of men said ‘getting enough sex’ wasn’t by itself enough – they wanted to feel wanted.

One man I interviewed summed it up like this;

‘Everyone thinks that when it comes to sex, guys just want to “do it’ and women are more into the emotion and cuddling of it. So women think there are no emotions there. But there are, and when you say no, you are messing with all those emotions.

And it’s not only a flat ‘No’ that hurts. The survey showed that even if they were getting all the sex they wanted, three out of four men would still feel empty if their wife wasn’t both engaged and satisfied.

THE SURVEY QUESTION:

Imagine that your wife offers all the sex that you want, but does it reluctantly or simply to accommodate your sexual needs. Will you still be sexually satisfied? Yes or No? 

RESPONSE:

74% of the MEN: NO

26% of the MEN:  YES

#TGIF   #SanctifiedSexuality.

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